Beyond child - parent relationship In the former post I described the role of early child-caregiver relationship as the first fundamental relation shaping child integration with the world. This relation importance diminishes in adolescence and is replaced by new intimate relationship with another adult person (see also here). This new relationship will have the crucial role … Continue reading Adults intimate connections
Let me expand the concept of Integration that was introduced previously. I want to present how connections between human beings keeps the World together and governs our feelings and behaviours. I'll start by stressing that connection should be understood literally - it's not a mere metaphor intended to stress importance of human relations. We are born and … Continue reading The importance of human connections and how they shape our life
Treating man as an element of something bigger gives a new perspective to growing up and personality building theories. To present this, let's start from scratch, by changing human and attachment conceptions: 1. We need to cease human individuality. See human primarily as a part of the human community, element of a greater whole or one cell in … Continue reading From a child to a (un)happy adult
Some use to think that evolution is a proof of evil or ravenous nature of human beings because it seems to be all about competition and survival of the fittest. Competition plays its role, but evolution is mainly about cooperation and organization smaller elements into larger more sophisticated structures.